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My vetting process is in place to keep both of us safe. To begin, fill out the form on the landing page or request my Session Application form by emailing 

Options for vetting

Are you new to BDSM? Haven't seen a provider in a long time? Review these options for steps on working together.  


Once I've reviewed your Session Application and determined that our interests align, I'll contact the providers you've mentioned. Should I not hear back from them, I'll follow up with you within 5 business days. If you don't have professional references, you may list play partners who have agreed to vouch for you. In this case, please include their FetLife handle or other contact information in your application.  

ID check

Most appointments require an ID check--especially when you lack references. This is an industry standard that keeps both parties safe. I will NOT keep your image on file.

  • When I request this, you'll email me a photo of you holding your license next to your face. You may blur your address.

  • You may also show me your ID during a brief video call for verification purposes. 

  • Failure to comply with my screening procedures may result in an incomplete application and block/ban.

Social media

Optional: List any public social media profiles you have: LinkedIn (set to Public); Facebook; Instagram; X; TNA board; BlueSky.  

Meet & Greet

We'll meet for 30 minutes in a public cafe. $100 + cost of our snack. This fee is for Meet & Greet only, and is separate from any future session fees.  

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